Femininity is the art of operating in the feminine energy. Feminine energy is associated with kindness,
softeness, nurturing and sensitivity. A feminine woman uses more her feelings than her logic, which is
contrast to masculine energy which exudes power, strength and logic.
In today’s society, there is alot of woman empowerment, which is a good thing because most societies
have been patriarchial for long and the woman was always viewed as the man’s object. But even as we
champion for equality in sectors like education and in different professions, it’s essential that we women
choose to exude our womanliness aura regardless of the environment we are in. Even as we study and
get into different professions, it’s essential to remember what makes us women. Our softness and
beauty should always stand out.
So here are some suggestions that we can try out as we aim to be more feminine and womanly.
There is nothing more sexy and appealing than a woman who talks with a soft voice and using kind
words. This makes someone interested in listening to you as you talk. It’s good to learn to always use a
low tone when talking to someone on a one on one as you listen to them carefully so that you can
Wear sensual clothes
Always wear clothes that aren’t too bagy or too tight either. Know your body type and the right size for
Look elegant and polished
Apart from clothing, you can add jewellery like earrings, a necklace and wristlet to make you more
appealing and feminine. This should go hand in hand with your clothes. Also learn to walk with high heel
as it makes someone so beautiful.
One of the main characteriscs of women is nurturing. That means that we like taking care of
things/people and see them blosom. The first person that you should take care of, is you. Take care of
your soul, mind, spirit and body. And in turn you will take care of others in a balanced way that you
won’t forget yourself.
Learn learn learn
Learn to DIY. Learn some do it yourself essential skills that you need as a woman. For example, learn
how to cook, apply makeup and all the small things that are helpful to you. This will save time and it also
improves your creativity. Also study different topics ranging from politics, religion, motherhood, history,
sports and trade. You don’t have to know everything about something but atleast know something
about everything. This will help you keep conversations and feel good.
Know your worth
You should know that being a human being means that you are as important as everybody else. So as
you build your confidence and grow yourself, also learn to respect others. Learn to love yourself in a way
that you won’t give anything like your body to a man to seek any validation.
May you receive wisdom and guidance as you seek to be more feminine.